What can I do if I suspect a relative is financially abusing an elderly parent?
My sibling moved in with our elderly mother and I’ve noticed large withdrawals from her account and a new car in my sibling’s name. Mom says “it’s fine” but she seems confused.
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Financial exploitation of older adults is unfortunately common, and it is often carried out by someone close to the person. Signs can include unexplained withdrawals, changes to wills or accounts, new “friends” controlling access, or missing belongings.
Possible steps include:
- Contacting Adult Protective Services or the equivalent agency where your mother lives
- Alerting her bank, which may have fraud and vulnerable-adult procedures
- Speaking with her doctor about her capacity
- Consulting an elder law attorney about protective options, which can include court action
If you believe she is in immediate danger, contact emergency services. Keep notes and copies of anything you observe.
This is general information, not legal advice — speak to a licensed lawyer about your situation.
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